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<br /> H[]da_=da_SV[f<br /> (GLWHGE\3UDEKDVVRUQ6HYLNXO<br /> PrOFILE<br /> Vikrom was born on March 17,<br /> 1953, in Kanchanaburi province. He is<br /> the eldest son of his family, with 23<br /> brothers and sisters, a number which<br /> includes stepbrothers and stepsisters. He has been interested in business<br /> and marketing since he was just 4 years old; while still studying in<br /> grade 3, he took over a roasted peanut shop started by an aunt. He could<br /> save hundreds of dollars by this small beginning. After receiving a<br /> Bachelor’s degree in mechanical engineering from National Taiwan<br /> University in Taipei, he returned to Thailand and set up an import-<br /> export business in 1975 under the name V&K Corporation, Ltd. 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