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MICHIGAN<br />
FAMILY LAW JOURNAL<br />
a PublicatioN oF the state bar oF michiGaN Family laW sectioN • carol F. breitmeyer, chair<br />
editor: aNthea e. PaPista assistaNt editors: sahera G. housey • lisa m. damPhousse • ryaN m. o’ Neil<br />
editorial board: daNiel b. bates • amy m. sPilmaN • shelley r. sPiVack • James W. chryssikos<br />
Volume 46 Number 2 February 2016<br />
Chair Message ......................................................... 1<br />
By Carol F. Breitmeyer<br />
Negotiating Your Best Family Law Settlement ... 3<br />
By Antoinette Raheem<br />
Pots and Pans ........................................................... 7<br />
By Henry S. Gornbein<br />
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and<br />
Domestic Violence ................................................. 9<br />
By Rebecca Shiemke<br />
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<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 11" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=11"> Pots and Pans By Henry S. Gornbein </a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 12" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=12"> supposed to move most rapidly are those without c</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 13" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=13"> Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and Domestic</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 14" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=14"> early initiation of sexual activity, adolescent p</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 15" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=15"> Ideally, parenting arrangements should achiev</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 16" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=16"> 12 Michigan Family Law Journal </a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 17" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=17"> Pensions and retirement accounts are often the la</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 18" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=18"> Professor Lex By Harvey I. Hauer and Mark A. Sno</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 19" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=19"> presume than to prove.” Stanley, 405 U.S. at 658</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 20" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=20"> The Family Law Section GREAT LAKES HONOR ROLL The</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 21" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=21"> The Family Law Section Great Lakes Honor Rol</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 22" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=22"> The Case of the Issue By Henry S. Gornbein Shae</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 23" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=23"> “…has an interest of such a nature that a final d</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 24" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=24"> Finding A Military Divorce Attorney – For The Spo</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 25" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=25"> center can allow the garnishment of military reti</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 26" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=26"> TAX TRENDS AND DEVELOPMENTS November 2015 Change</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 27" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=27"> increase her ultimate benefit based on h</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 28" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=28"> Family Law Political Action Committee In 199</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 29" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=29"> Legislative Update By William Kandler, Lobbyist </a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 30" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=30"> HB 4028 RESPONSIBLE FATHERS (Kosowski) Creates Re</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 31" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=31"> HB 4375 SAME-SEX MARRIAGE (Zemke) Removes prohibi</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 32" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=32"> HB 4481 DOMESTIC VIOLENCE (Lyons) Prohibits custo</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 33" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=33"> HB 4744 (PA 256) FAMILY LAW (Kesto) Updates refer</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 34" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=34"> SB 228 MARRIAGE LICENSES (Knezek) Allows issuance</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 35" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=35"> SB 458 PARENTAL RIGHTS (Schuitmaker) Clarify grou</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 36" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=36"> Recent Published and Unpublished Cases (Summariz</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 37" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=37"> signed Defendant’s EDRO based in part on the reas</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 38" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=38"> Court of Appeals found that the trial court commi</a>
<a title="Family Law Journal - February 2016 page 39" href="http://viewer.zmags.com/publication/8416cd2b?page=39"> Michigan Family Law Journal Family Law Section St</a>